The njoy Pure Wand: Redefining the Female Sexual Experience

It’s rare to find something
which challenges your perceptions about your own
sexuality, but for me, the njoy Pure Wand has
done just that. I’m having a difficult time referring
to the Pure Wand as a sex toy because that term
simply doesn’t apply to something which has shattered
every preconception I’ve ever held about masturbation
and my own orgasms.

The
Pure Wand has redefined the terms ‘self love’
and ‘self pleasure’ for me in ways which alter
my concept of female sexuality. This is not a
sex toy, this is sexual evolution. Women will
now be able to discover things about their own
bodies and their own orgasms in ways that we never
would have been able to learn about and experience
without the Pure Wand.

I
became interested in trying and reviewing the
njoy Pure Wand after I’d seen a picture of it
online. When I started to research the product,
I found that there was very little written about
it, and even less written about the experience
of using it, but after looking at the picture
of this creation, I knew that this was going to
change how women could experience the ultimate
in sexual pleasure.

First a little about what
the Pure
Wand is and isn’t. When you hold the Pure
Wand in your hand, you immediately appreciate
the artistry and vision which has gone into designing
it; the asymmetrical balance makes you want to
hold it close to your body and feel the weight
of it against you. It has a presence, something
very tangible as you slip the smooth stainless
steel through your fingers. The Pure Wand is heavy,
(more on why this is important later), but you
may find yourself sliding your fingers over and
across the precision stainless steel balls on
either end, almost caressing it as if you’ve just
discovered a new life form. Because the Pure Wand
is shaped unlike any other ‘sex toy’ you may find
yourself a bit perplexed about how this is supposed
to work - (When I was doing my research, I found
next to nothing about this, and there are no instructions
provided) – because the shape is indeed completely
alien in nature.

The Pure Wand is 24 ounces
of pure solid medical 316 grade stainless steel
polished to a mirror shine. The two balls on either
end are 1 ½ inches and 1 inch respectively – the
distance between the balls is about 8 inches and
10 inches along the curve. The design allows for
the larger ball to be used on a female for g-spot
stimulation and the smaller on a male for prostate
stimulation. It doesn’t vibrate, but it does resonate
when tapped, and it does respond to its environment
very well in terms of temperature and it can be
heated or chilled to individual preference for
alternative play. The Pure Wand is completely
non porous and I found that I did not require
any additional lubrication to use it; my own slippery
self was more than adequate, with beads of liquid
sliding off the steel like millions of raindrops,
and it cleans nicely with just about anything.
According to Njoy, do not use abrasives.

Using the Pure Wand was
something else entirely. This was a process of
trial and error, a little frustration, and then
orgasmic overload. The purpose of the Pure Wand
is to stimulate the Grafenberg or g-spot (also
known as the Skene’s gland or urethral sponge).
Most women have never experienced what some medical
and sexual health experts call the ‘second orgasm’
or g-spot orgasm. Because our sexual anatomy is
primarily hidden from view, some experts dismissed
the existence of the g-spot because its function
is/was unclear. Now, there is a greater understanding
of how the g-spot works and what it is, and women
have a better understanding of how to stimulate
their own. The Pure Wand is such a means of achieving
this stimulation.

A little about the g-spot
and g-spot orgasms; g-spot stimulation produces
orgasmic contractions around the uterus. Most
women are familiar with what some call a clitoral
orgasm which produces contractions of the vagina
and PC muscles. An issue with stimulating the
g-spot is that women often feel the need to urinate
during stimulation; this is because the g-spot
is close to the bladder and the urethra. This
sensation usually lasts about 30 seconds and passes
with further stimulation resulting in an orgasm
felt deep within a woman’s body. I would urge
women who plan to pursue pleasuring their own
g-spot to understand that these sensations are
normal and that you’re not going to pee the bed,
but you should relieve yourself first anyway.

Finding
your g-spot is a bit trickier. The g-spot is located
on the upper wall of your vagina directly behind
the pubic bone. It can usually be found between
the back of the pubic bone and the front of the
cervix along the track of the urethra. The size
can vary, but it’s about the size of a lima bean
and is an area of spongy tissue which hardens
and swells as it fills with blood when stimulated.

Using the Pure
Wand

As I began to experiment
with the Pure Wand I started to masturbate as
I normally would; touching myself, making myself
wet, losing myself in my own sexual fantasies.
I slid the large ball down along my skin and up
and down along my slit. The Pure Wand is the perfect
size to hold one end in your hand as you slip
the other inside your body. I was very wet and
the Pure Wand picked up my body’s own lubrication
with delightful ease. It felt a little cold as
I slipped it inside my pussy, but I began to slide
it around and found that it fit perfectly, went
in with ease, and warmed up quickly. I started
rubbing my clit as I normally would to masturbate,
but my body or better put, my PC muscles started
pushing the Pure Wand out of me as I started to
have contractions.

The key to using the Pure
Wand is you have to push it inside your pussy
past your PC muscles so it rests against and makes
contact with your g-spot. The 1 ½ inch ball gives
you the psychological feeling of being filled,
which is such an integral part of the female sexual
experience; these feelings of being completed.
The design behind the weight of the Pure Wand
then becomes apparent; filling, resisting being
pushed out, satisfying. Pure genius. Under the
1 ½ inch ball is a slight flare in the steel which
tapers down, which my pussy immediately clasped
around once the Pure Wand was deep inside me.
This had the effect of my pussy pulling the wand
deeper into me rather than trying to force it
out. With the Pure Wand inside me, my own consciousness
shifted to the point where I was unaware that
it was there; I only became aware of the sensations
it produced and what I was feeling – unlike some
other toys where you have to think about it or
work at it to get off.

I rode the initial waves
and pressures of feeling the need to urinate until
they passed as I continued to slide my finger
around my clit with one hand, and manipulate the
Pure Wand with the other. I applied a slight pressure
down on the Pure Wand which brought it up higher
against my pubic bone until I was sure I’d made
contact with my g-spot. I stayed like this for
a while, allowing all of the sensations to wash
over me and bring me to higher plateaus of bliss
and ecstasy. When I finally reached my orgasm,
I felt it come from someplace deep within my body,
shaking my very core of existence. I also experienced
female ejaculation which was I found to be an
earth shattering and mind expanding sexual event.
This is a different kind of stimulation and experience.
As I have continued to explore the capabilities
and levels of orgasm I can reach with the Pure
Wand I have found that I am able to bring myself
to orgasm by just stimulating my g-spot in addition
to being able to have combined orgasms by stimulating
my clitoris as well.

The orgasms I have achieved
with the Pure Wand are more like altered states
of consciousness, with a level of euphoria and
ecstasy I have rarely reached through any other
means.

This is it. This
is what it means to be a woman. The njoy Pure
Wand, you haven’t felt anything until you’ve felt
this.

See
it here.

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The
Waterpoof iVibe Rabbit Vibrator: The Perfect Sex Toy

If I stopped for a moment to think about all the orgasms I’ve given myself in the pursuit of testing and reviewing sex toys, the most memorable ones I’ve had have been with the
Doc Johnson iVibe Rabbit Vibrator. This is the one you’ve been waiting for girls!

It’s no mystery why the iVibe Rabbit has quickly become one of the best selling sex toys worldwide – everything about this vibe has been carefully designed with your maximum pleasure in mind. Simply put, the iVibe is the Neiman Marcus of sex toys - and owning one will open up doors of orgasmic ecstasy that you’ve always dreamed about.

Unless you’ve been hiding out for the last few years on some
remote desert island, you’ve likely heard about The Rabbit. First introduced into our collective consciousness by the creators of HBO’s Sex in the City, the rabbit has evolved and the result is the iVibe, with its advanced technology and multiple settings which deliver an endless series of vibrator patterns inside and outside your delicate pink girlparts, with total control right at your fingertips. Orgasms will never be the same!

Let’s talk about the design

The iVibe is ten inches long from base to delightful tip, offering close to six inches of insertable cock with enough girth to satisfy any girl’s cravings. The shaft is made and covered with a soft jelly which bends to your every curve, and it’s resilient enough for you to really grind it into
your pussy. The iVibe is tipped with a perfect penis head with a fully rounded ridge underneath just like a real cock, and there’s enough detail on the shaft for you to really feel it when it’s inside you. About 2 ½ inches down from the tip are the luminescent pleasure pearls taking up almost three inches of the shaft. These pleasure pearls swirl around and around delivering amazing stimulation to the entrance of your pussy and all the way inside. Jutting out from the top of the shaft is what gives this vibe its name, the rabbit and bunny ears. These ears extend out from the rabbit delivering heart stopping and mind blowing stimulation to your clitoris all while the pearls are spinning and the tip of the shaft is swirling around the silky depths of your sugar walls.

The control panel is located at the base with separate on/off controls for the shaft and for the bunny, with three function controls located in the center.

Let’s talk about how it works

The
delight of the iVibe is in the controls and the endless series of patterns you can create, tailoring your experience to your individual taste. You might be in the mood for just some clit action and want to use the shaft as a dildo – you can do that! Or you might be in the mood for some swirling g-spot stimulation and want to really throttle this cock deep inside you – you can do that too!
The iVibe has enough options for you to design your perfect orgasm and perfect level of vibrator intensity, or you can set the controls to everything on and just go for it! Any way you choose to use the iVibe, you won’t be disappointed!

A little more about the iVibe’s function controls:

Function 1 sets the rabbit ears to vibrate while the shaft rotates and the pleasure pearls swirl.

Function 2 sends the rabbit ears moving rhythmically from side to side while the head of the shaft pivots right to left and front to back.

Function 3 sets the ears into a dizzying series of pulses in short quick motions as the head of the shaft swings to and fro.

The sheer delight of the iVibe is that you control the functions and you control your pleasure!

A little more to know before you buy

The iVibe is available in several delicious colors, Strawberry, Lime, Tangerine, Grape, and Blueberry. It takes four AA batteries; one pair for the bunny ears and one pair for the shaft. And… it’s waterproof! Meaning that you can take the iVibe into your bath, shower, hot-tub, or anywhere else you might want to get all wet and slippery!

There’s a whole lot to love about the iVibe. Most sex toys or vibrators do one or two things really well, but the iVibe does lots of things really well! It’s a fantastic clitoral vibrator, a great dildo, and a fantastic g-spot vibrator, all in one easy to use design! This is truly the sex toy of the 21st century! So much thought has gone into the design of the iVibe, with it delivering multiple levels of stimulation to your vagina, clitoris, and gspot – you might never want to put it down! It’s easy to see how we could become addicted to a sex toy like this!

The iVibe is also powerful, extremely powerful. There’s nothing worse than a vibrator that lacks the power to get the job done, but the iVibe has no such shortcomings. This vibe packs a punch and it delivers every inch of pleasure you’d come to expect from a vibrator such as this. It’s
a high end vibe with advanced physics and enough sensuality to hook you for life.

Using the iVibe

For me, masturbation is all about connection with my own body. Touching myself and bringing myself to orgasm helps me to understand what I like and where I like to be touched. It’s also good for your soul to indulge in a little self love in addition to having a healthy sex life with
your partners. It feels good, and making yourself feel good and giving yourself orgasms helps to relieve stress and it’s good for your overall psychological and emotional health too. How can you love someone else if you don’t love yourself first?

The first time I used the iVibe I crawled into bed with it and was just so excited by the sheer size of this awesome vibrator. I began to touch myself, playing with my nipples until they were stiff and slowly running my fingers down over my abdomen until I felt myself starting to get wet. I slipped my hand into my panties and started massaging my clit, dipping my finger into
my wet cunt and spreading my own slippery bliss all over my clit and labia, working myself up into a good self love groove. I was alone in the house, which sometimes makes all the difference to being able to get into your autoerotic experiences – when no one’s home you can make all the noise you want, take your time, and indulge your every whim!

I slid my panties off and tossed them to the floor and spread my legs wide. I ran the soft head of the iVibe up and down along my labia, using it to part my inner lips and dabbed the tip inside my cunt getting the toy wet and slippery. I slid it inside myself just to get a feel for it and I was surprised by how much like a real cock it felt like and how much girth it really had. I turned on the shaft starting with the lowest setting and started working my way up as I pushed the toy deeper inside my hot pussy. This toy does all the work for you, so I laid back and just allowed the sensations come over me as the head of the iVibe swirled inside me. I immediately noticed how wet I was getting and how good the spinning pleasure pearls felt against the walls of my pussy as the tip spun around and around, and I had yet to turn on the bunny ears!

As I played with the function controls and turned up the intensity, I found my perfect spot! With the head rocking back and forth inside me, I pushed the iVibe in as far as I could. My first orgasm completely snuck up on me, taking me by surprise as the head hit my gspot perfectly, sending shudders throughout my body causing me to drop the iVibe right out of my hand
onto the bed. It was that intense! As I caught my breath and a few minutes passed, my pussy was so sensitive that I didn’t think I’d be able to come again so quick. I was wrong.

I needed a little bit of ramp up again to get me ready for another orgasm, so I slid the iVibe out of me and just used the tip on a slow setting to massage my outer labia until I started tingling again and I was ready for more. I slid the cock back into my pussy and changed the settings
a bit so I could get a nice slow groove going, and I brought the bunny ears up to my clit and turned them on. The sensations were amazing, so good that I knew that I would soon be having another orgasm. I ramped up the intensity a bit higher and found a slow rocking motion for the shaft and let the iVibe work its magic on my clit. It didn’t take long for me to come again with the magic bunny ears twirling and buzzing happily around my engorged clitoris! It
was like I had died and gone to orgasm heaven!

I’ve been using the iVibe almost daily and have experimented with so many combinations and possible settings, indulging myself in every possible moment of eroticism and erogenous pleasure. I’m seriously in love with this toy!

Why you need one

There are so many choices, so many good sex toys to choose from, so many ways to give yourself the kind of pleasure you deserve. I consider every sex toy I own to be an investment in myself and my own pleasure. If you’re going to invest in yourself and your own pleasure, then take control of it and get something that’s going to work and isn’t going to disappoint you. The iVibe really works, and it’s perhaps the best sex toy I’ve ever used. Considering how many sex toys I own and have used and reviewed, that says quite a bit. Every woman should own an iVibe Rabbit – and they’re perfect for gifts! Guys can buy one of these for their wife or sweetie; birthday, anniversary, or just because! They also make a perfect shower gift for a bride to be, or as a gift for any woman you know for any occasion! Every woman needs to feel good and the iVibe is a great way to let her know that you think so too!

The Doc Johnson iVibe Rabbit Vibrator is a lazy geisha tested and approved favorite sex toy, and is wholeheartedly and gleefully endorsed!

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Beautiful You

Inside each and every one of us is a beautiful sensual
being filled with the same vibrancy and grace
as the world's most gorgeous women, and all it
takes is a little nudge to set her free - one
way to help her on her way is with a little silk
and lace.

Wearing sexy
lingerie is one of the perks of being born
female. It helps us connect with our femininity,
and it also helps us get in touch with that beautiful
woman inside of us. Let's face it, most of us
don't have supermodel looks, perfect bodies, or
the budget for a personal chef, trainer, plastic
surgeon, or do our shopping on Rodeo Drive in
Beverly Hills, but none of that matters! Feeling
beautiful is a state of mind, it's a state of
being, and when we tap into our femininity and
wrap ourselves in beautiful things we feel as
good, as sexy, and as stunning as any runway supermodel.

So what's the secret?

Our natural femininity is drawn out when we slide
those silky stockings up along our legs and then fasten
them to a lacy garter belt. We can't help but
feel connected to everything feminine about us.
Lingerie is such a wonderful and easy way to connect
with that femininity, and the benefits of doing
so are countless.

Let's focus on us for a moment. Our bodies are curvy,
soft, we have swells of flesh which beg to be
touched, and we're built this way for one reason,
to attract members of the opposite sex. It isn't
any mystery why we have curves and why men stop
dead in their tracks when they see a woman walking
by them. They stop to look because they're visually
attracted to our bodies, and by accentuating our
bodies and our natural attributes, we attract
more attention. But what about us? What benefits
do we get from wearing sexy things like lingerie?
The benefit is that we feel beautiful. Our mind
is our body's biggest erogenous zone, and that
state of mind we get into when we slip into a
silky babydoll or a lacy
bustier or even a
laced up corset with garters is priceless.
Putting ourselves in that state of mind makes
us feel desirable, sexy, and sometimes even a
little naughty! Women spend thousands of dollars
every year on makeup, perfumes, hair products,
clothes, all to look and feel good about ourselves
and to look and feel beautiful. Why should that
stop in the bedroom? Yes, your body is beautiful,
but wrapping yourself in soft pretty things only
enhances that natural beauty.

Lingerie is also a fun way to indulge some of your naughty
fantasies with things like
costumes or even a wicked corset to help make
you feel like the gorgeous sex kitten that you
are!

Lingerie isn't just for
the girls with the perfect bodies anymore either.
Most companies now offer
lingerie in plus sizes so women of all shapes
can indulge in their own beauty and feel just
as desirable.

So what about the guys?
Men are visually stimulated, so when he sees you
dressed in your beautiful lingerie, you're going
to get his attention and stir his desires. Men
seek out that femininity, that vulnerability in
women, and when we accentuate our femininity with
lingerie, we radiate with female energy which
brings out his masculine energy. Make no mistake
about it girls, you're in control in the bedroom,
and if you want your man to worship you all night
until the break of dawn, then you need to take
charge of your femininity and give him something
to worship!

Let him slowly undress
you. Invite him to sit back and watch you slide
your stocking off. By the time he gets his hands
on you he's going to be wild with only one thing
on his mind, YOU!

There are so many good
things about feeling beautiful. The emotional
and psychological benefits of feeling desirable
are so essential to our well being. If you're
not ready for a full blown erotic lingerie makeover,
try starting slow with maybe a nice silky teddy
or even a satin robe, and then work your way up
to something sexier. It's entirely up to you how
much lingerie you want to wear, but remember,
you're doing it for you. That's what's most important,
that you do it for yourself first. Make yourself
feel beautiful, sexy and alive and the world will
respond. And if not the world… then the one you
love and the one who loves you.

And that ladies, is all
that really matters.

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