The njoy Pure Wand: Redefining the Female Sexual Experience

It’s rare to find something
which challenges your perceptions about your own
sexuality, but for me, the njoy Pure Wand has
done just that. I’m having a difficult time referring
to the Pure Wand as a sex toy because that term
simply doesn’t apply to something which has shattered
every preconception I’ve ever held about masturbation
and my own orgasms.

The
Pure Wand has redefined the terms ‘self love’
and ‘self pleasure’ for me in ways which alter
my concept of female sexuality. This is not a
sex toy, this is sexual evolution. Women will
now be able to discover things about their own
bodies and their own orgasms in ways that we never
would have been able to learn about and experience
without the Pure Wand.

I
became interested in trying and reviewing the
njoy Pure Wand after I’d seen a picture of it
online. When I started to research the product,
I found that there was very little written about
it, and even less written about the experience
of using it, but after looking at the picture
of this creation, I knew that this was going to
change how women could experience the ultimate
in sexual pleasure.

First a little about what
the Pure
Wand is and isn’t. When you hold the Pure
Wand in your hand, you immediately appreciate
the artistry and vision which has gone into designing
it; the asymmetrical balance makes you want to
hold it close to your body and feel the weight
of it against you. It has a presence, something
very tangible as you slip the smooth stainless
steel through your fingers. The Pure Wand is heavy,
(more on why this is important later), but you
may find yourself sliding your fingers over and
across the precision stainless steel balls on
either end, almost caressing it as if you’ve just
discovered a new life form. Because the Pure Wand
is shaped unlike any other ‘sex toy’ you may find
yourself a bit perplexed about how this is supposed
to work - (When I was doing my research, I found
next to nothing about this, and there are no instructions
provided) – because the shape is indeed completely
alien in nature.

The Pure Wand is 24 ounces
of pure solid medical 316 grade stainless steel
polished to a mirror shine. The two balls on either
end are 1 ½ inches and 1 inch respectively – the
distance between the balls is about 8 inches and
10 inches along the curve. The design allows for
the larger ball to be used on a female for g-spot
stimulation and the smaller on a male for prostate
stimulation. It doesn’t vibrate, but it does resonate
when tapped, and it does respond to its environment
very well in terms of temperature and it can be
heated or chilled to individual preference for
alternative play. The Pure Wand is completely
non porous and I found that I did not require
any additional lubrication to use it; my own slippery
self was more than adequate, with beads of liquid
sliding off the steel like millions of raindrops,
and it cleans nicely with just about anything.
According to Njoy, do not use abrasives.

Using the Pure Wand was
something else entirely. This was a process of
trial and error, a little frustration, and then
orgasmic overload. The purpose of the Pure Wand
is to stimulate the Grafenberg or g-spot (also
known as the Skene’s gland or urethral sponge).
Most women have never experienced what some medical
and sexual health experts call the ‘second orgasm’
or g-spot orgasm. Because our sexual anatomy is
primarily hidden from view, some experts dismissed
the existence of the g-spot because its function
is/was unclear. Now, there is a greater understanding
of how the g-spot works and what it is, and women
have a better understanding of how to stimulate
their own. The Pure Wand is such a means of achieving
this stimulation.

A little about the g-spot
and g-spot orgasms; g-spot stimulation produces
orgasmic contractions around the uterus. Most
women are familiar with what some call a clitoral
orgasm which produces contractions of the vagina
and PC muscles. An issue with stimulating the
g-spot is that women often feel the need to urinate
during stimulation; this is because the g-spot
is close to the bladder and the urethra. This
sensation usually lasts about 30 seconds and passes
with further stimulation resulting in an orgasm
felt deep within a woman’s body. I would urge
women who plan to pursue pleasuring their own
g-spot to understand that these sensations are
normal and that you’re not going to pee the bed,
but you should relieve yourself first anyway.

Finding
your g-spot is a bit trickier. The g-spot is located
on the upper wall of your vagina directly behind
the pubic bone. It can usually be found between
the back of the pubic bone and the front of the
cervix along the track of the urethra. The size
can vary, but it’s about the size of a lima bean
and is an area of spongy tissue which hardens
and swells as it fills with blood when stimulated.

Using the Pure
Wand

As I began to experiment
with the Pure Wand I started to masturbate as
I normally would; touching myself, making myself
wet, losing myself in my own sexual fantasies.
I slid the large ball down along my skin and up
and down along my slit. The Pure Wand is the perfect
size to hold one end in your hand as you slip
the other inside your body. I was very wet and
the Pure Wand picked up my body’s own lubrication
with delightful ease. It felt a little cold as
I slipped it inside my pussy, but I began to slide
it around and found that it fit perfectly, went
in with ease, and warmed up quickly. I started
rubbing my clit as I normally would to masturbate,
but my body or better put, my PC muscles started
pushing the Pure Wand out of me as I started to
have contractions.

The key to using the Pure
Wand is you have to push it inside your pussy
past your PC muscles so it rests against and makes
contact with your g-spot. The 1 ½ inch ball gives
you the psychological feeling of being filled,
which is such an integral part of the female sexual
experience; these feelings of being completed.
The design behind the weight of the Pure Wand
then becomes apparent; filling, resisting being
pushed out, satisfying. Pure genius. Under the
1 ½ inch ball is a slight flare in the steel which
tapers down, which my pussy immediately clasped
around once the Pure Wand was deep inside me.
This had the effect of my pussy pulling the wand
deeper into me rather than trying to force it
out. With the Pure Wand inside me, my own consciousness
shifted to the point where I was unaware that
it was there; I only became aware of the sensations
it produced and what I was feeling – unlike some
other toys where you have to think about it or
work at it to get off.

I rode the initial waves
and pressures of feeling the need to urinate until
they passed as I continued to slide my finger
around my clit with one hand, and manipulate the
Pure Wand with the other. I applied a slight pressure
down on the Pure Wand which brought it up higher
against my pubic bone until I was sure I’d made
contact with my g-spot. I stayed like this for
a while, allowing all of the sensations to wash
over me and bring me to higher plateaus of bliss
and ecstasy. When I finally reached my orgasm,
I felt it come from someplace deep within my body,
shaking my very core of existence. I also experienced
female ejaculation which was I found to be an
earth shattering and mind expanding sexual event.
This is a different kind of stimulation and experience.
As I have continued to explore the capabilities
and levels of orgasm I can reach with the Pure
Wand I have found that I am able to bring myself
to orgasm by just stimulating my g-spot in addition
to being able to have combined orgasms by stimulating
my clitoris as well.

The orgasms I have achieved
with the Pure Wand are more like altered states
of consciousness, with a level of euphoria and
ecstasy I have rarely reached through any other
means.

This is it. This
is what it means to be a woman. The njoy Pure
Wand, you haven’t felt anything until you’ve felt
this.

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it here.

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